Should my boyfriend try for full custody of his child or ask for equal custody

Take a look at Family Code 3011 for what the court considers in making an order.

I have been very low contact with a family member for several years. They're now trying to make unwanted contact - what do I do?

I concur. You can get a civil harassment order if they do not respect your wishes.

How long is one obligated (theoretically) to disclose assets they've acquired after separation, but before divorce finalized?

Parties have an ongoing fiduciary obligation to one another as it pertains to marital assets.

Divorce--Does my spouse get 1/2 of my retirement account contributions?

I concur. It is best to consult a family law attorney to review your distributions etc and advise you as to what your wife's community interest may...

My kids father refuse to be sever. He was giving the paper work and he refuse to take it. How can i go about this?

If anyone over the age of 18 gives him a copy of the paperwork and files the proof of service with the court regarding same, his refusal to...

Can my wife refuse sell of current house during our ongoing divorce process?

The facts are limited in your post. If this is pre-judgment, you may move the case forward by requesting a case management conference/trial setting...

When it comes to the issue of religion, unless the act is harmful to the child (animal slaughter, dangerous activity), I do not believe you can...

I live in California and my estranged husband lives in Pennsylvania in our home we own together. Where do I file for divorce?

You can file in Ca, but may only be able to terminate marital status as the court may not have personal jurisdiction over your spouse.

Can I move forward with my divorce as a default?

You will need to Petition the court to allow for service of process by posting.

Can I file for divorce in California?

You also omitted where your husband lives. If he has no connection to California you may only be able to terminate marital status.