Sounds like you need legal counsel. Depositions are sometimes an option as well depending on the specific facts of your case. Don't go this one alone.

Is the TRO valid if I was served and yes it is in court website, has a hearing date but the server did not file the serving pape

Website is not aways current. The bigger question is why would you want to put yourself at risk by being around a person who has accused you of...

I got divorced today, when can i remarry again?

Once you get a conformed copy of the judgment back from the court.

Because diagnosis of Autism, is that reason enough to ask for a change in holiday time now that visitation is 50/50?

Any input from the child's Doctor about the length of time. This is where I would start followed by a discussion with the other parent.

Can he bother our family?

This is a landlord tenant matter and not a family law matter.

Possible partition of multi-family home still in Trust.

This is an estate planning question.

Does a Community Property Agreement (in Washington State) need to be recorded with the county auditor to be legal and binding?

I concur. Ask a Washington state attorney.

I concur, why not just file the thing and let the judge know what the issues are?

He/she can quit anytime. However, if you do not sign the substitution of attorney, he/she will file a motion to be relieved. When matters get to...

Father is lieing in a custody case about the children living with him for 10 yrs.Can mother gain more for him lieing?

I concur. Use the find a lawyer tab here on Aavo to get some experienced help.