Can I file an amendment to my divorce decree to ask for more alimony money? Or, can I take him to Civil Court to sue for damage

Really depends on the terms of your judgment. You would have to file an RFO and present your FC4320 evidence.

What can I do to get the judge to agree to the name change? Do I need to contact the father, ask him to agree & file w/ court?

I strongly suggest you get help from an experienced family law attorney here on Aavo.

What are the documents i need to change/write when paying off part of the loan.

I concur, show your entire judgment to a local family law attorney rather then piece mealing it here.

What does your judgment say as to this issue?

Where will my ex boyfriend have to file visitation rights? Can California serve me papers out of state?

If the child has not been in the new state for 6 months and the father did not consent to the move then Ca is where the case will be heard.

Is requesting the divorce decree be domesticated in CA an option? Can I do it myself?

What does the language of your judgment say? Perhaps you should contact CSSD for enforcement.

How can I find a pro bono lawyer.

Google search or you can try legal aide or a low cost service.

What are the tax implications of assuming a mortgage (FHA) in California between family members?

This is not a family law question. Better results can be obtained by posting in the right category.

Is there anything my husband can give to the school granting me permission to sign paperwork or attend meetings on his behalf?

I concur with my colleague. Have your husband stop by the office before heading out of town next time.

What can we do to make the process of the appeal go smooth and can we check the status.

Yeah, working with the government is a real pain. I am assuming you are dealing with the court appointed attorney. Best of luck.