What information do I need to get alimony dropped?

File your Request For Orders setting forth the change in circumstances. May want to invest in a PI.

Can a CPS worker tell you they will take custody from you if you do not file for full custody?

Need more facts as to the extent of domestic violence experienced.

How to discover executor and where will is? And family mistreatment/theft.

This is a probate rather then a family law matter.

After the divorce, will my SS be reduced or can my wife apply for spousal benefits and we both get the amount I currently get.

There will be a de minimums support obligation based in the respective incomes provided.

Do I have any legal recourse for visitation? I spoke to one organization that told me I don't because I am not the parent.

I concur with my colleague. Enjoy the visitation while it lasts, but there is no obligation to continue.

What can I do to get my children back if I've completed all that was asked of me?

I concur with my colleague. Get a free consultation today.

For a 21 year marriage, divorced finalized Oct, 2013, is the wife still able to file for spousal support and retirement?

If the Court reserved jurisdiction then wife can request modification. Hopefully your attorney included the findings for which the order was made.

What other opposition do I have to file for name change with out copies of divorce papers filed ?

I concur. No judgment required to change your name.

It depends exactly what you are modifying. If the percentage of time remains about the same, then no change of circumstances is required.

Are family law cases unlimited civil cases and why is that so?

Why does it matter? If you have a family law case, file in family court.