How can I change a stipulation and order for child custody and visitation?

If it was already filed, you need to prepare a new one and have the other parent sign it.

How do I file for divorce from my spouse in California?

Use the self-help center at the courthouse.

Grandma filed for guardianship of my child, Can she get my child a lawyer?

The court should appoint a lawyer for the minor in a guardianship matter.

Our family law declaration is too long- what can we do?

I concur with my colleague. People can be too wordy. Think I the reader when you write and have short and concise statements of fact.

No. Spousal support is based on standard of living and not post-separation wages.

What custody rights do I have as a father in state of California?

You can utilize the self help center at the courthouse as well as exploring unbundled services of an attorney.

Can i still put him on child support if i have full custody of my child & he has 2 older kids?

Absolutely. Child support is based on the time spent with each parent as well as their respective incomes.

My family stuck my grandmother in a convalescent home after breaking her hip

Sounds like a conservator action is what you may need.

Filing a marriage-based petition I-130 for green card AFTER divorce been filed but BEFORE the judge orders the divorce decree?

Great immigration law question. Best of luck.

Yes, anyone over the age of 18 can serve divorce paperwork.