Can I file for spousal suport even tho we have been divirced for 11 years...my ex bullies me to not dare file, I deserve nothing

I concur with my colleague. Length of time of separation is one of the 14 factors.

Does in Santa Clara Family court my sons father whom has only filed ex parte motions after non responsive to my replies?

What is your question? Please help me, help you.

How can I find out if I live in a illegal garage conversion?

Perhaps that is the downside of renting someone's garage.

Does relapsing alcoholic affect custody ?

To the extent that it effects the children's best interest, relapsing may effect custody.

What are some steps to protect oneself from an abusive parent?

Stay away from the person inflicting the abuse.

Yes, you should be able to appear at mediation over the phone and inquire with the court whether they will allow you to appear by court call.

I'm divorced and want to change my kids last name to my maiden name. Is it possible without his consent?

This may also be an issue for your children who have likely grown accustomed to their last name.

What to do.

This is a great workers compensation question.

Child custody/child support /cps was called

What is your question? If you received a late declaration, you can object on the basis that the declaration is untinely.

What is the best custody solution for my step son?

Guardianship may be the best resolution for you.