Can the judge force me to keep the family home that I am not interested in?

No, judge can't force you to keep real property. You can sell and divide the proceeds accordingly.

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Two marriage licenses. Forged signatures. Possible spousal support fraud?

I concur with both colleagues. Don't invite needless drama into your life.

How can a non-paternal husband come back into my life legally ? He plead guilty to domestic violence / child abuse.

I would also recommend taking classes for victims of abuse so as to develop appropriate boundaries.

Should I get a lawyer if DCFS is called on our family?

It never hurts to consult an experienced lawyer.

How can I prevent my daughter's mom from relocating with my daughter from Los Angeles County to North Carolina?

I concur with both colleagues. Don't go this alone.

My children's farther owes $29k in child support, can we get that money from him through the court?

I concur with my colleague. Let child support services department deal with him for free.

What kind of lawyer will I need and what is the next step?

I concur with my colleagues. File a paternity action.

Is there any way to find out how much my ex wife's new business is grossing?

Send her a request for an Income & Expense Declaration. Allowed once a year.

Can I remove, cancel, separate insurances, alimony??

I concur with my colleague. Don't cancel any existing policies.

Charged for misdemeanor PC 166 for a civil order in Family Court

I would have to concur with both colleagues. Best of luck.