How to protect myself from son-in-law threats

I concur with both colleagues. Best to hire experienced counsel under your fact pattern.

I concur with my colleague. Best of luck.

What remedies are available if your spouse quit their job right before divorce in order to avoid paying spousal support?

It is important to determine why they quit. Was it due to an injury or as you said, to avoid paying support.

I concur with my colleagues. Use this site to hire competent counsel.

Must torts action be filed before filing for divorce?

Please provide more facts. Your question is too vague.

How do i file a restraining order against my sons father to protect my children that are not his from having contact with him.

You can either go to the self help center or hire an attorney here onAvvo.

UNIFORM CUSTODY ACT

I concur with my colleague, Ca has the right to exercise temporary/emergency jurisdiction to safeguard the child.

How do I find a divorce lawyer who can handle an international divorce, specifically The Netherlands?

Use the search bar here on Avvo to locate an attorney who practices family law.

We have perm guardianship of our sons daughter in CA he is in NC. Can I leave my granddaughter w/her Aunt & not my son if i die?

How about your spouse? He/she may be a viable option as you both have guardianship of the child.

How can you get spousal support if you can't locate your spouse to serve them divorce papers?

Hire a PI to locate and serve your spouse with both divorce papers and your papers for the court date.