Is there any Dis-advantage when I work with the firm for QDRO process myself while Ex. has a divorce attorney.

QDRO attorney does not represent either side. Ultimately, the plan must approve the QDRO and you can certainly hire an attorney to review the QDRO...

If there is no court ordered custody agreement, what are my rights?

I strongly suggest that you file and obtain orders immediately to avoid being left at the discretion of the local law enforcement.

I filed a FL 165 for entry of default of my divorce. Spouse is in jail. Can I request to reserve jurisdiction on other issues?

Reserving a Request for a later determination is called Reservation of Jurisdiction.

In family court can the judge require counsel to a party in litigation?

No unless it is for a contempt of court matter for which the court may appoint an attorney for the litigant.

Smoking marijuana in the proximity of minor children or to the extent it interferes with your ability to care for minor children is always a...

Can I file for just divorce and handle child custody and child support matters later?

Yes. You can request the the court reserve jurisdiction on the remaining issues since your spouse is incarcerated.

Does an unwed mother automatically have full custody unless the dad tries to go to court?

Nothing is automatic and strongly suggest you file a paternity action right away to ensure as smooth of a transition as possible.

How can I get either full custody or more time with daughter

You can either hire an attorney through Avvo or use the self-help center to file your paternity request.

We have a 18 yr son of deceased of a friend that is in Nigeria. How can we get him here to live with us. His dad a workerof mine

This is a great immigration question.

How can I ensure my son's best interest? I am the non-custodial father in a child support case. Mother is absent.

I concur with my colleague. You can let the uncle and aunt raise your child or step in yourself.