Any tips for how to obtain: 1) proof of divorce, and 2) proof of a death; when you don't know where these took place?

Hire a PI. Lot cheaper than a lawyer. Best of luck.

How can I get temporarily residential custody of my child

I concur with my colleagues. Don't go this alone.

What should I do if I am the custodial parent and will be out of town for three months, should I leave the kids with my wife?

It would also depend on logistics and your order. If the ex lives far from schools, it wouldn't make since. If your order says that each party, if...

Can I reduce or stop paying alimony for several months because I can't afford it?

You would need to file a Request for Order to modify the current support order.

Look also at Form fl-190 Notice of Entry of Judgment as the date will be on there as well.

Would this be ground to file contempt of orders? Or should I file a petition for custody

Contempt: possible jail time and fees vs. Request for Orders: possible change of custody/visitation and remedy problem.

Can I file a full Custody order, if there is a ex parte temporary order already in place against the noncustodial parent.

If depends on if there has been a change since the prior order was made (best interest if temporary orders or substantial change if permanent order).

What do I do and how do I protect myself from losing my son ?

Move aways are involved cases. Use the find a lawyer tab here on Avvo.

I believe my first and 2 nd divorce lawyer hurt my case and now I'm with out anything .

I concur with my colleagues. There is also an ethics hotline for consumers as well.

How can we evict a family member legally that only has verbal agreement no lease

Give them a 30 day written notice. Best of luck.