Should I pay civil demand letter?

The consensus on avvo is to ignore the letters. If they ultimately sued you, you could always pay then to avoid a civil judgment.

Tell me what i can do

This best equipped entity to deal with this problem is the police. They deal with these situations all the time and will have the resources to...

How do I get my money back?

Your attorney would be the best person to ask for the money back...that way you do not say anything that can be used against you to the police. ...

Do we need legal representation and what can we expect to happen?

Consult with a local attorney that appears frequently in the juvenile court in your area. If the case is handled the right way, you daughter's...

Do I have any legal options whatsoever? Rights, recourse, of ANY kind?

You should look into having your record sealed and destroy. A local attorney should be able to see if you are eligible fairly easily.

Can these guys put me back into jail since I am unable to pay the premium? I HAVE/WILL be going to court, I have not missed.

If the bond people do not get paid, they can go to court and have the bond revoked and then you will go back into custody.

The pink criminal summons is the one that can possibly give you a criminal record.

You can always get another attorney by simply hiring one. If the court appointed your attorney and you want another attorney appointed then there...

What actions do I need to take next?

If the restraining order has been violated and you have proof of it, then you go to the police and she will be arrested. I am not going comment on...

Is his mothers message third party? whats going to happen next?

You can't violated the order...but he technically did by responding to you. It is inappropriate for his family to be sending you messages. You...