I have a restraining order on someone and they contacted me and i replied will i be in any sort of trouble?

You will not get in trouble. You have no reason too. You have no restrictions.

Can I transfer my warrant or case to California from Michigan. Also Can I bail from California from Michigan warrent?

Your case cannot be transfer from states. Your best bet is to contact an attorney in Michigan. They might be able to appear on your behalf.

Talk to your attorney. Your attorney is the best one to advice you.

My 6th admndment right to a speedy trial ?

Talk to your attorney. If you have court you have at least a court appointed attorney. Unless you are self representing in which case criminal...

No you do not need to divorce in order to file for vawa.

I am a green card holder wanting to apply for citizenship

Do not lie. Your best bet is to talk to an Immigration Attorney.

He can request to see a judge. But I agree with my colleague, the best bet is to contact an immigration attorney.

How do I get this ticket dismissed or deferred so it doesn't screw up my current defferment and driving record?

Hired an experience attorney who regularly handles these type of matters in the location.

Does this VAWA petition works for my situation ?

You could apply but best bet is to consult an immigration attorney. I know probably not what you wanted to read but you can never know so you...

I am out of status for 8 months. According to the immigration law, Do I have to stay out of the US for 3 years now?

Talk to an attorney regarding this as there might be some exceptions for you.