What are the chances of a having a carpool violation 21655.8(a) reduced to a non-moving violation?

Your matter is probably in Harbor Justice Court. Getting an attorney might get this reduced.

Do I have an obligation to report my nephew in law is paying his daughter off the books?

No you have no obligation to report anything.

You are allowed to use reasonable force to defend yourself. A drink in face vs. pepper spray might be considered extreme. Call the police!

Is there a statute of limitations on possession to cells and transporting?

Both possession and transportation of controlled substances are felonies. The statute of limitations is 3 years.

What should I do? kinda feel like it's a lost cause for me.

At this point you do not need an attorney. Do not stir the pot by making inquiries. I handle many matters in Ventura. The last thing you want to do...

What can I do to resolve the issue of sexting with a 17 year old turning 18 in a few days ?

Block her account . Ignore her! Hopefully it will fade. There should be no more contact whatsoever.

No jail for this- but you may be hit with a civil assessment. Your license most likely has a hold on it. Get to court ASAP!

My son got pulled over

Get an attorney. Did he get a citation for going 102 or reckless driving? Pretty serious violations. He needs an attorney. Sometimes deals can...

How can my wife & I, remove restraining order placed by, here say from a 3rd party.? No physical/ visual evidence of baterry.?

You and your wife will have to go with your attorneys and convince the judge you are suitable for such a modification. The DA might oppose this....

Can I get another court date or my fine reduced from collections ?

There is no requirement to send courtesy letters. Go to court and see traffic clerk to deal with this- or get an attorney.