I agree regarding if PERS was joined. If they were not joined, and the pension that lacks a QDRO is yours, then the only one who has a problem will...

Is a qdro needed when the ex-spouse doesn't want any

If you are keeping your own 401K pursuant to an agreement of your spouse which is then turned into a judgment you do not need a QDRO.

My wife is from the Philippines, we have been married for 6 yrs .Some of her female friends who married Americans divorced them.

You need to go see an experienced family lawyer. You should likely file for divorce or legal separation and take steps to have the house awarded to...

Generally if you (or both of you) are each keeping your own retirement accounts (Pension, 401K, etc) you don;t need a QDRO because you aren't...

I am going to reclassify this question for you as a criminal question as a lawyer who practices criminal law is better able to answer your...

What to do if other parent won't cooperate?

You can ignore this, chalk it up to why you got a divorce and just deal with it, which is obviously NOT what you want to do. It is, however, the...

Sometimes lawyers will send copies of documents as filed to their clients, and then follow that with a copy of the signed documents once they...

Do not try to do this without an experienced family law attorney. Mediator is not supposed to "side" with anyone. Rather, a Mediator is supposed to...

My spouse was served 2 days ago and says if I don't meet his demands he will not sign can I go forward with divorce

I absolutely agree you need to immediately canceled with an experienced family law attorney. I do not see this situation getting any better by itself.

Can I sue

You should consult with a personal injury attorney as soon as you can.