You need a consultation with an attorney. Do not delay.

You need a detailed consult as to the reasoning to withdraw an asylum claim.

Happens often. There could be an issue that needs to be resolved from the first interview. Your friend needs to be prepared for the second...

You do not need the card to file the adjustment.

Impossible to answer without a detailed consult. Please talk to a lawyer.

Impossible to answer without a detailed consult. Please talk to a lawyer.

The long delay is normal. Please be patient and work with a lawyer.

My colleagues are correct. Seek the counsel of an immigration lawyer ASAP

My colleagues are correct. Seek the counsel of an immigration lawyer ASAP

Unclear, of what you want, but it is clear that you need to seek the counsel of an immigration lawyer