H1B 60 day grace period only available if one has valid I-94?

You would be considered out of status and ineligible for an extension of status.

I485 pending for years, what should I do?

Yes, you could schedule an InfoPass appointment to inquire. If that proves to be unfruitful, you may wish to consider suing the USCIS to obtain a...

You should prepare to file your adjustment of status and consult with an attorney.

Can I do a change of status from O1 to E2 dependent? If so, how long will it take and how will I be able to travel outside US?

Yes, it is possible to change status while in the US. If you depart while the COS is pending, you would be abandoning the request. if you wish to...

Would I be able to change my f2 to H1B if an employer must petition for me and request change of status as part of that petition

Yes, it is possible to seek change of status in connection with your Employer's filing of an I-129H Petition.

Trying to immigrate as a religous worker

It may be possible to qualify as a Special Immigrant religious worker if you have worked as a Minister for at least two years. At present, the...

Asylum application

The one-year rule refers to filing only, not adjudication.

H1B visa stamping with extended petition of future date?

You should bring both I-797s to any consular appointment.

There are several possibilities presented here worth discussing in a consultation with an attorney.

My heart is broken, pls I need urgent answers!!

You should consult with an attorney to discuss your exposure and eligibility for relief from removal in advance of any hearings.