Need advise

The first I-130 will be denied, whether you withdraw it or not. The more likely issue this case presents is why the 1-130 was pending for 3 years...

I am looking for an immigration attorney but do not have the money to pay it all up front

Consult with an attorney. Many will offer a progress payment plan.

Am I eligible for Employment-Based Immigration: Second Preference EB-2

It is possible for an employer to require a bachelor's Degree plus 5 years experience for a position to qualify for an EB-2 preference petition.

H1-B transfer with different employers at the same time

Yes, this is still possible as long as you have not violated your H-1B status.

F1 Change of Status within the US

You do not necessarily need to withdraw the filings you have made with the USCIS. the fact that you were working in the US and sought a COS to...

Can my daughter and granddaughter who have applied for an immigrant visit come visit?

She could apply for a visitor visa, but must truthfully disclose that she is the beneficiary of an immigrant visa petition.

How to report a person with a tourist visa?

You may want to discuss this matter with a family law attorney before approaching DHS to report an "illegal alien."

The H-4 status must be approve din order for the EAD to be approved.

Renew my Greencard

It does not appear that you have abandoned your resident status, so renewal of the green CARD should not be problematic.

There is no information here as to why the I-485 was on hold in the first place or whether any efforts have been made to follow up on its status.