Am I required to have J-1 waiver before we file petitions to be sponsored by my wife, even thought my J-1 visa expired long time

Yes, the foreign residence requirement still must be waived.

Which visa do you think I can apply in order to work and help us support ourselves?

You may be able to seek an immigrant visa through your husband's petition. Consult with an attorney.

Yes, you could request new paperwork by appearing at the OSUP office where you usually report.

What kind of visa should i apply for? also can i move to her place and apply for a family based greencard

You mother could petition you to later obtain a green card, but this would not provide any immediate status. Consult with an attorney.

What are my chances for an SB-1 visa?

SB-1 is used when the extended stay overseas was inadvertent and/or unforeseen. If the Sb-1 is not appropriate, you would have to reapply for a...

Can I go for H4 extension, before I file H1 (premium) or wait till the lottery process and then go for H4 extension ?

The H-4 extension could be filed at any time prior to the expiration of your current I-94.

Quisteuns on violating terms of j1 visa

You may be ineligible for another visa due to the lapse of your status. Consult with an attorney.

Click on the "Find a Lawyer" button at the top right of your AVVO screen for a quick referral. Good luck!

You cannot safely return if you leave without first obtaining the Advance Parole travel document.

Can I move to a different office location in the U.S. after approved labor and I-140?

You may need a new I-140 if you are moved before the I-485 has been pending at least 180 days.