You should depart within a reasonable time of the extension denial. You begin to accrue "unlawful presence" the date of the extension of status...

Looking for an agent to assist us in the visa application

You can find an attorney in your local area by clicking on the "Find a lawyer" button.

Do i need to call uscis to upgrade my wife's document status from wife of LPR to wife of USC???

The petition has automatically been upgraded. Include the approval notice with the filing.

1. How can i defend my case as I'm not in US? I need to let the court know they're asking me for illegal money?

You would retain an attorney in the US to handle the business dispute and file paperwork in the court for you.

Is it possible he will get his appointment before May ?

It is possible, but perhaps not likely. You need to try and contact the Embassy to see if the appointment can be expedited under the circumstances.

Form I-485 Part 3 C

technically, the USCIS wants you to include information regarding memberships in any groups or organizations.

What do you think, is it "safe" to go or I can be arrested or deported?

ERO is the Enforcement and Removal office, however this does not necessarily mean that you will be deported. If the asylum office denied the case,...

Can I work on two jobs simultaneously and get my h1-b applied from both companies.

It is possible to work for two separate H-1B employers, as long as petitions are filed and approved for you by each.

What are the immediate steps we need to take in order to get the whole process started?

You need to file for adjustment of status, however, USCIS will likely reject the filing if the selection number is "not current." The application...

Removal of conditional

Not necessarily, but it is something that you need to start preparing for.