I agree with colleagues and add that loan may be discharged in C7 BK. Review all documents with BK counsel.

If you do not respond, you risk default judgment. Hire counsel to prepare, serve response to UD matter.

Yes. Court has authority to invalidate or amend irrevocable trust based on evidence presented. No. Court not limited to changing administrative...

Both you and sister have equal priority to be appointed personal representative to administer estate. You may contest her appointment and petition...

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Yes. You may prove biological parenthood after death of biological parent. Happens all the time............................

Possibly. Many, not all, civil matters and judgments are subject to BK automatic stay. Consult BK counsel.

I agree with colleagues and add: Continue treating self!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes. You may sue sister in law. Proper venue and jurisdiction in NJ. Hire NJ counsel for assistance.

Begin with strongest cause of action and proceed to least strong cause of action in pleadings....................................