You are in over your head. Formal probate may be necessary. I need to ewview Will and title to further guide you.

Your attorney may file petition to have you appointed conservator with authority to place daughter into suitable care facility. Link...

No. Facts cited do not support CS award.

Possibly. General rule allows gift of SP assets. There are exceptions. More case specific information needed to opine in this situation.

Yes. You may quitclaim interest to child. However, 16 year old may not take title directly. You will need to name fiduciary to hold title for...

Possibly. More factual information needed to opine on possible elder abuse.

1099A not sufficient to purchase home. Options include: -outright distribution from trust which can be used to purchase home; -use trust...

If trust irrevocable, and you are beneficiary, your attorney may make demand of trust and amendments from trustee.

If you are currently acting trustee, you are entitled to copy of trust. You are obviously in over your head. Hire an attorney to obtain copy of...

Your attorney may file RFO seeking court approval of travel.