Yes. Successor trustee may transfer trust property.

Not enough information provided to advise whether PO Will needs to be probated. Review facts and documents with probate counsel.

Either you misunderstood or he lied. Rview documents to find out.

At renewal time, it may revert to the intestate heirs UNLESS the will specifies something else.

There is no "form" to request extension of time to reply. Begin by requesting extension from OP. If OP does not agree, you may file pleading...

Consider filing C7or C13 BK to eliminate debt.

Nothing you have stated invalidates the codicil.

No. Code requires use of USPS first class mail.

Judge believes you did not submit sufficient evidence to support claim.

No need concern based on taking more than 30 days to receive settlement proceeds. Keep in touch with your attorney and monitor.