1. Can the man gift out a jointly owned property to his wife on the grounds that he toiled with her in cultivating the land.

Yes. Person may gift described interest in land. Such gift terminates any joint tenancy interest.

Is there any circumstance in which a will (not a trust) can be written up to avoid probate?

Will alone will not avoid probate. There other planning devices and methods which avoid probate. Most common probate avoidance techniques...

Can I amend the name of my trust myself?

Yes. Name of revocable trust may be amended. Yes. You may do this yourself, provided you have knowledge to do so.

Yes. DCSS may assist in locating 1099 for ex spouse. Yes. Companies that pay 1099 employees are required to produce and file 1099 with IRS by...

Can I get paid caregiving them? Do I need a lawyer for this situation?

Yes. You may enter into contract with parent(s) to be compensated for caregiving services. One or both parents will have to have legal capacity...

How can I travel out of this country w/out having to contact the birth father of my child?

Best option is to file RFO requesting sole legal custody. Hearing will be required. Abandonment claim not possible based on fact F is paying...

How can I fight this? Whether it be the government or my family, I am sick of feeling helpless and being homeless.

You are entitled to notice of hearings and to be kept reasonably informed of case status and progress. Probate court documents are public...

Can I legally be declared as the administrator/executor of his 'estate' without directly engaging an attorney?

Yes. You may be appointed as probate administrator without assistance of probate counsel. If you do this, you will be responsible for compliance...

Residuary beneficiary problem.... hmmmmm??/

If residuary beneficiary was alive at time order for distribution was made, the distribution to the deceased beneficiary will go the his/her estate.

Can I file Somewhere in City Hall to not accept Power of Attorney in any real estate transaction in property I own?

Yes. You may amend or revoke existing POA's. Yes. You should file copy of amendments and revocations in jurisdictions in which property owned.