Yes, Emergency exparte RFO meritorious based on information provided. Your attorney can assist in preparation and argument.

Yes. Elder abuse is serious matter. Rambling one sentence post not worth effort to decipher and further advise. Hire and attorney for assistance.

Possibly. However, if document confidential or ordered sealed, you will have to sue for release to you.

Yes. Custodial parent responsible for ensuring child educational needs met.

Probably not. Formal probate may not be required. California Small Estate Affidavit may be all that is needed. You will need assistance to...

Possibly. In CA surviving spouse responsible for CP debts of deceased spouse.

In absence of court order, either parent has equal right to custody of children. Previous DCPS/CPS history may be relevant.

Possibly. What is "settlement" for? Ask better question for better answer,

Financial accounts generally divided based on DOS values. However, parties may agree to another value. for purpose of division. Bets practice is...

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