What is our recourse?

There are many potential issues in your question including whether or not the trustee committed a fraud on the court(s) and whether or not the...

Sorry to tell you but the answer is: yes. Consult an experienced litigator for the best strategies to deal with difficult parties.

This is irrevocable trust. Doesn't this go under contesting.

A contest is generally considered a challenge to the terms or validity of the trust instrument. From your description, it sounds like they are...

What do I need to do to protect my rights and assets as the surviving spouse?

From what you described, it does not sound like the daughter has much of a case. Consult an attorney to review everything and, if necessary,...

House in foreclosure no will no probate.

You want to commence an action in the probate court as soon as possible, probably a spousal property petition, to transfer the property to the...

How can my dad do this without my sister contesting the trust?

Provided your father has capacity, his ability to determine the beneficiaries of his property is a fundamental right. Simply stated, it is your...

Probate...

If your father is handling the probate correct, there is no need for you to sign anything. The fact that he is asking indicates that he is not...

Can my uncle legally refuse to provide beneficiaries copy of will and sell house ? Do all wills have to be filed with court?

There is something strange going on based on your factual description. Your Uncle should not have the power to sell the house without having filed...

Does a beneficiary have to disclose assets (stock statements, etc.) to incompetent trustee during litigation?

The statements are not your mail or property and you should not hold them. You should keep a record of what was received and your efforts to...

I understand that the trustee can use trust funds for his legal fees. Can he use only "my" funds for his fees?

It depends on the terms of the trust but generally the fees will impact the beneficiaries who do not have specific gifts. You may be able to have...