Do I need to include this with the default/judgment documents?

Prior to requesting entry of default, I would highly recommend you include this asset on a property declaration. You don't want to be accused...

What to do with my house purchased after marriage when the divorce proceedings are going on outside US?

You purchased the house AFTER you got married. If community funds were used to purchase the property and/or are being used to make the mortgage...

Can she get alimony award to her two years after our divorce was finalized.

Depends on what your judgment says. If there was a true waiver, then neither party can come back after judgment was entered to seek modification...

Can I file a modification to lower my alimony payment if I've remarried?

Your remarriage, in and of itself, is not a basis for modifying support amounts paid to a previous spouse or to your child. You should consult...

How do I get a paternity test once the county files a child support case against me?

Yes, you'll have to pay for it. http://www.dnatestingforpaternity.com/

Do I need to exchange documents with the person who wrote the document to present it in family court?

If you insist on representing yourself, i.e. on being your own lawyer, you will be held to the same standards as a lawyer. You will be expected to...

No one can predict for you what the outcome of your case will be. Your chances will improve in direct correlation to the amount of evidence you...

"supported spouse" is the spouse who is the intended recipient of spousal support. Why are you using this form? For what purpose?

Is he allowed to show to ALL activities, such as swim/piano lesson I schedule and pay for on solely my time? Request I can make?

Sounds like you need better, more clear orders. You may want to consider a restraining order as well. If you don't want your orders to remain...

How do I legally let my 17 year old live on her own otherwise she runs away. She can take care of herself

Can't you and your daughter simply wait until she turns 18? If not, then I think what you are asking about is emancipation: ...