What do we need to do in order for my wife to adopt my daughter?

http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-adoption.htm

If I wanted to modify child support in the future, which case number do I put on my forms? The 16D case number or the 13P one?

Use the superior court case number. It might save you a lot of time if you contacted DCSS and asked them this same question. You also have the...

Can a noncustodial parent be legally accountable if she conspired to kidnap a missing child?

Dad can file an Order to Show Cause re Contempt of custody orders. But why bother?

Alimony questions: Ex-husband recently laid off and since, stopped court ordered alimony.

The court order remains in effect and enforceable until the order itself is modified or set aside. Your ex is obligated to obtain a modification...

No, you cannot. The time to object to your judge is at the beginning of the case (i.e. back in 2011).

How do I ask for Ex Spouse's medical records? To determine custody

As you are post-judgment and there are no hearings pending, you do not have the right to subpoena ex's medical records. If you had evidence that...

When looking up case states Pending and no other info available

If no judgment has been filed and the register states that the matter i still pending, then the matter is still pending, i.e. you are not divorced....

What do i need to file to finalize divorce with difficult ex?

You do not have to rely on your ex or her attorney to finalize your divorce. You have just as much right to move the case along as she does...

Is the conformed copy of a filed form fl-340 my legal copy of the orders?

You are right to be confused. "conformed" means, signed by a judge and filed with the court. If you have a Findings and Order After Hearing that...

Can I keep my new child if I lost custody of my two daughter's an now there adopted

Why would they? CPS does not get involved unless a report is made to them relating to a suspicion of abuse or neglect of the child.