Service of the Cross-Complaint and Summons should be sufficient.

Can they have me fired for being shadowed by someone but no one I personally knew.

Assuming that you are an at-will employee, yes, you can be fired for this reason.

How can we cancel the contract with the first realtor (signed by mistake) without creating a problem?

Contact the realtor and let them know that you signed by mistake. They should allow you to cancel.

Do I need to file a mediation extension or jury trial extension?

You should file a declaration in court explaining why you haven't mediated by the required date. A full consultation would be necessary to...

Can my wife act as my assistant in a deposition. She is also a plaintiff in our case

She can attend, but no, she cannot act as your "assistant" or interact with you in any way during the proceedings.

How do I get the money I won?

Did you obtain a judgment? If so, you can collect using a bank levy, keeper, etc. There are a variety methods. Contact a collections attorney.

Hi my LLC is called GiftLove, LLC do I need a DBA /tradename if my product is called GiftLove ? Or should I trademark?

Yes, you should probably do a fictitious business name/DBA for GiftLove and perhaps trademark it as well for maximum protection. A full...

What To Do With Plaintiff's Attorney Resorting To Bad-Faith Tactics?

You should probably hire an attorney to stop this behavior. Unfortunately, when attorneys see a pro per on the other side, they often take...

What is the best structure for forming a company that would allow me to minimize tax, give me flexibility, and limit liability?

Likely an LLC, but a full consultation would be necessary to properly advise you.

How should I formalize these invested funds other than simply depositing them in the company bank account?

This should be properly addressed in the bylaws and shareholders agreement. A full consultation would be necessary to properly advise you.