In addition to my colleague's responses, I would add that you can object where the question is immaterial or irrelevant. For example, the...

How do i get a simple divorce and still get alimony

You will need an attorney to handle the many issues you present here. Find an attorney who is interested in settlement and hope your soon-to-be-ex...

I have legal custody of my child and share physical custody and would to move do to an opportunity with my employer.

Given the volume of issues in your case, I would consult an attorney. Did you file for a default judgment? If not, I would start that process as...

Can I leave without legal problems? Can he stop me from leaving ?

If you want to leave the state and stay in another state, it is best to leave before either of you files a paternity action. It would be easier to...

Do you have an order? Have either of you filed a divorce or paternity action? From the information you've provided it sounds like you were not...

I wanted to know what legal rights he has over the child? He asked for joint legal and physical custody.

Strictly speaking, joint legal custody refers to decisions regarding the health, education and welfare of the child. Absent extraordinary...

Re: custody/visitation........even in uncontested cases, is mediation for custody/visitation NEEDED?

I agree with the previous answers, however, if there is a chance that you will not be able to agree, there is no harm in setting a mediation date...

Is there a way that a person can legally make sure that a person won't refuse to pay alimony without getting a divorce

I agree wit the other comments. If you are not getting a divorce or separation, it is very difficult to ensure payment of "alimony" (which would...