Is it acceptable for a judge to grant an order stipulating the child's wishes should be honored re: visitation and counseling?

The Court usually does not rubber stamp a child's wishes, although at 16 the Court will most likely listen and if well reasoned may adopt.

Need to extend spousal support

Pretty easy. As mentioned, a Stipulation and Order should do it.. The only issue that you have may be the time it takes for a Judge to sign off on...

Next steps

File the Response to the Petition asap.

You would have to terminate his rights which is difficult. Two years without contact is a good starting point.

Could I move in with my grandparents, Even through I am only 15 years old but turing 16 this year?

Seek assistance from a counselor at school.

What are my parent's options if I run away?

If you are in danger or are being abused seek the assistance of a counselor at school. Irony that you live in Dodge.

The other answers are great. In addition, you may also want to consider changing the Venue since neither of you live in California.

If a parent wins custody of the kids during a divorce but doesn't act on it, what happens next?

Absolutely file for a request to modify. After 4 to 5 years, it will be granted. Also, deal with any support issues that may be present. Hope that...

I have a case open DCF social worker child court I just lose my rights of my daughters custody custody I finish everytthey to

Yes, review everything with your court appointed lawyer. You may also hire a private lawyer. Act quickly as there are time deadlines.

Change my 2 year olds name.

Sometimes these forms are confusing and mistakes cause delays. Seek assistance from the facilitator in the court.