My attorney forgot to file my pdds and my case is in default? He assured me there are no ramifications. Is this true?

You’ll have to prepare and have them served prior to submitting your Judgment package but if your spouse hasn’t filed a response, there is no...

If you feel that a confirmation is necessary, you must advise him that he needs to confirm his visitation OR arrange so that visitation occurs...

You have to provide your own attorney (unless it was an OSC re Contempt) but you can file a Request for Order to set aside the order because of...

You each will need to complete and file an FL-150; I think they made a mistake by sending you the FL-685.

Child Support Sanctions and Per Diem

It might be possible but unlikely; support orders can’t be modified retroactively - you’d have to request that the original orders be set aside...

I HAVE 5050 CUSTODY of my son withe mother. she recently left out of state per her family with an abusive man.

If your order says “notify” then you have notified.

How can I ask for legal custody ?

On these facts, reasonable likelihood of success; at least, worth the request.

Under the circumstances, you presumptively have a right to move - and as you point out, the court cannot award custody to date at this point. ...

Do I need my child’s fathers permission to move out of state if we have no custody agreement?

He can file a Petition to Establish Parental Relationship (if not legally the father) and ask the court to order you back to the jurisdiction. ...

...and then you must show up to the hearing and prove your case.