She could only keep you in her custody if she succeeded in getting a court to grant her a Conservatorship - which would require that she convince a...

What type of attorney would I obtain/ retain to help me with my situation?

Unless there was an order for child support that he didn’t pay, you are not owed anything. You might want to have someone in his country search...

If I separated 8 years ago, is there any benefit to filing first ?

You file in the county where you live, and you can complete the process without your’s spouse’s participation.

,,,merely irreconcilable differences.

I am receiving spousal support and recently found out she has a live in boyfriend.

No - it’s only relevant if you were paying her spousal support.

Does it matter in what county you file for divorce ?

You can file in either county if one of you has lived there for 3 months. The characterization of your assets as community or separate would be...

What do I do?

I doubt it’s about you; perhaps he wants to see his children. Much depends on whether he received notice of the guardianship.

?How can I accomplish seeing my children for the first time. If I cannot afford to support them?

You have to file a Request for Order and ask for it. Initially it would be a ‘get to know you’ probably supervised visit with step ups if visits...

You need to file a petition in the case that granted the Conservatorship asking that the present conservator be removed because she isn’t doing her...

Post-Judgment discovery is limited but you can’t ignore the demands. It is limited to the issues before the court in the RFO. I don’t think the...