You have already moved ... so I’m not sure how custody can remain the same.

You have the right to file for divorce or stay in the marriage (because of the affair) and the right to file a DVTRO to deal with his mental abuse.

CA Wife leaves home 3 months, returns while Im away working a week. Changes locks and my entire belongings thrownd into garage.

File for divorce and possible DVTRO for destruction of property and disturbing your peace by locking you out for no reason without notice.

We had a visit from a DCFS person saying someone had report it my grandson mother been abusive towards my grandson?

Your son should have prevented her from taking the child and if unsuccessful he should have filed a Request for Order to get custody of the boy and...

How difficult is it to appeal a Marriage Settlement Agreement done by a mediator?

You may not be entitled to all that you mention just because of a ‘smith/ostler’ - you do need a consulatiaon.

Divorce?

As long as CA has jurisdiction when the case was initially filed, then CA retains jurisdiction, and it’s much more efficient to just complete what...

You can certainly make a request that the court make such an order (but of course you can’t make the order yourself- only a request to dad)

Move away case

The issue is potential hardship to the children in missing a relationship with their other parent

Name change after Divorce

In my experience, nothing happens....................

If you have a defined and specific schedule, you now have your final Judgment that you can show to local law enforcement and ask if they will...