Im in a restraining order by wife, no 3rd party contact, can my mother do a civil stand by to get my cloths only

It depends on the orders but doubtful wife is correct; bring police to get stuff

I want too know what i should be doing in regards to my children's custody situation

File petition to terminate guardianship which will give you full custody because of dad’s unavailability

I think you might - disturbing your peaceful enjoyment; read the DV portion of the Family Code 6300 et seq

We are not fortune tellers - but you’ve taken the correct steps.

One parent in violation of court order how to make them comply?

He can only do it without a lawyer if he is willing to figure out how to do it; he needs to either file a Request for Order or an OSC re Contempt. ...

She needs to review her Judgment because of course her divorce could have - and should have - included support. See if the issue is reserved or...

Does it disqualify a petition to extend a protective order if he lied on application?

Arguably - yes - but people do it every day of the week. You just have to respond and refute it.

How can I find out if my ex husband filed 2019 taxes on his business?

You can request an Income & Expense Declaration once per year - and it mandates the attachment of a Schedule C or K; see form...

A judge won’t - but maybe Department of Child Support Services can find him. Call them and open a case.

You need to start again, file the RFO, and explain what happened. Your attorney should “fall on the sword” for you and write a declaration.