Im owed arreasrs in ca of over 20,000 dollars i m trying to get child sup[port services to help me will they?

...only if they can collected it from the other parent.

I firmly disagree with whoever told you that; that total was based on 4 minor children - not 3; hire an attorney to contact DCSS and provide them...

In general, the value of real property is determined at date of trial - or division if settlement instead of trial. You could ask for...

What rights do I have?

The car is yours because your name is on the title; he might try and sue for the payments but he won’t get the car.

The other spouses rights in a divorce when they quit claimed the deed to a house when it was purchased?

You can’t put it on the market once petition for dissolution is filed, and you can’t put it on the market without her permission during the process...

IMHO, it isn’t appropriate for you to track her on his custodial time.

Alimony, short-term marriage?

File a Request for Order and ask that it be terminated or at least modified downward.

Overnights would obviously include hours, so it’s time spent with the child. You can calculate in hours, or days.

Married for 5 years & hubby wants me off the deed of the house we are living in.

...adding that your approach must take into consideration how much you trust your mom - especially if her name isn’t on the house. You refer to...

Do I need to pay out of pocket cost for child's foot doctor visit.?

Generally, parents are ordered to split uninsured medical (inc copays) - why shouldn’t you pay your share?