If your daughter is truly being abused, then you also could lose custody for failure to protect and she could end up in the system.

It depends on the nature of the criminal case - but probably.

She isn’t but you have to do something about it - like report her to the child abduction unit in San Diego...

If I understand you post correctly, you may be the child’s legal father. Are you on the birth certificate?

You may take the children out of the state for a vacation (unless of whatever reason there is a specific prohibition in your orders); you just...

She does not have the right to restrict his custodial time until she gets a court order; he can request that the local police enforce his existing...

It is called “community property” if it is being decided in a community property state.

You should at least get what is called “status” which means you would be divorced and reserve on whatever issues you can’t agree on. Perhaps...

She needs to stop making demands and pay pursuant to the court order. If she pays before the ordered date, there is nothing he can do to complain...

It is highly probably that the letter was not admissible evidence - and was in fact irrelevant.