You can’t - unless you have an attorney relative who is ready, willing, and able. Although you have a right to a “free” court-appointed lawyer in...

No - post separation debts are his separate obligation as to the 3rd party

You’re not married so no divorce, no spousal.

…curious as to whether the court knew that you were living with the other parent when it made the order; if so, then you would pay the support but...

In response to ##s 1, 2, & 4 - not possible; in response to #3, it depends on whether your wife has independent income, or whether you have enough...

It is dismissed. Disposition means the manner in which it was disposed (or finished), and in legal cases it is disposed of when completed and is...

…adding that you have to do QDROs for each retirement plan to actually get them divided.

…because you’re not doing anything to make it happen. It’s up to you and your spouse to make it happen.

It is not DIY - get a consultation with an appellate attorney.

Probably but it’s also probably cost-prohibitive; take your case to a appellate attorney in your area to review your file.