You probably need a magician - but search for a local lawyer either here or just search online

You managed a Guardianship, so they might.

Since all 3 of you seem dependent on his income, perhaps your plan is not well-thought out; I suggest you aim for independent living.

If you are the only “representative” - even if informally - devise a plan to divide the items. Number them and have the children draw until they...

If you are represented by an attorney, s/he would need permission to discuss with you; otherwise, you can contact her just as you can contact...

You’ll have to go back to court and maybe ask for therapeutic intervention because something is going on between CP and your children.

If there is a Trust, you will get a copy within 120 days from death; if there’s no Trust but a Will, it is lodged with the court in the county...

Generally, you cannot - especially since he is now paying child support. Otherwise, the taxpayers of California must assume the financial role of...

Yes - they will complete that date now that you have been served.

Without seeming harsh, you don’t have a right to share equally in his earnings or standard of living after divorce. However, I agree about the...