Yes because Guardian/Sister could agree; she doesn’t have to get court permission but may chose to risk it.

Just factually explain your reasons for missing the hearing and see what happens.

…adding cancel all credit cards to which she has access and give 30-day notice to quit for apartment (assuming you don’t live there), but you may...

If your husband signed the initial petition, then it is a joint petition for Summary Dissolution and all you have to do is wait.

File a Request for Order (FL-300) and an Income & Expense Declaration (FL-150)

Seriously, hire an attorney. Your lack of communication skills doom any success otherwise.

No - because deed is on its face other party’s separate property (although you could argue community interest for settlement or trial if mortgage...

Yes - and assuming $50K in 401k funds rather than current value of plan benefits, it should be a fair split.

If she was awarded the house, then she is entitled to the rents; however, the court hopefully ordered her to refinance to get your off the mortgage.

As far as I know, your license can only be suspended for not paying child support - not for ordinary debt.