It depends on where you are now relative to your spouse; if s/he earns substantially more than you, you are likely to receive spousal support if...

You do need to make her go; what if she refused to go to school?

If he doesn’t agree that he has hidden assets? He probably won’t - but if he has failed to disclose and you do have proof, you can later file a...

Yes - especially the person who testifies (although it may be virtual) but at a Trial Setting Conference, there is no testimony.

I agree that she doesn’t qualify for 1/2 of child care “necessary for employment”

….changed category to probate instead of divorce

You must file a Request for Entry of Default; here’s a link to instructions: https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce/finalize-divorce

Yes because Guardian/Sister could agree; she doesn’t have to get court permission but may chose to risk it.

Just factually explain your reasons for missing the hearing and see what happens.

…adding cancel all credit cards to which she has access and give 30-day notice to quit for apartment (assuming you don’t live there), but you may...