You have to,open a new case and dismiss the other one

They must serve you 16 court days + 5 days for mailing prior to the court date. If they don’t serve you, they cannot move forward with their...

If your name isn’t on title, how would BFP have constructive notice? Do you have a hearing date for your demurrer? Did you call in advance to...

… not if he actually lives in the other state with his father

Yes if sharing custody of children and providing support by contributing to shelter.

It could be considered stupid; I don’t know why you need a manic finding of abandonment but legal abandonment requires 1 year absence and zero...

The only other option is legal separation because “if you can’t take it anymore” you have to remove yourself from the situation. You could try...

You might try to get him to communicate in writing - by text - so you could use his real opinion of you where necessary.

If you have given what is know as “legal consideration” (what you promised to do for him in return for his promise to “take care of you) you might...

Who is “they” and are you represented? If not, were you given an opportunity to review the proposed order prior to submitting it to the judge for...