Will a written notarized agreement between my husband and i be valuable in court to make him pay my std medical expenses?

As Atty Straus suggests, the agreement will be valuable in civil court and can be enforced so do it, but I would note that you don't need to keep...

How do we go about getting divorce we live here in ca.

He can file for Dissolution of Marriage if he's lived in CA for 6 mos and the county for 3 months; he does need to get her served with the filed...

What is my legal obligation to support him if he moves out? Can I make childcare decisions unilaterally? I need atty&what kind?

None, yes (until there are custody orders that include joint decision for childcare), and it depends on whether father will fight you for custody. ...

You could file an ex parte but not for 'custody' and instead a modification of visitation; however, you need to do it immediately after something...

Can I be served Orders of Protection by text and he tell me to stay away or he'll f@*#!&n throw me in jail??

Assuming you mean to ask "can you get an Order of Protection based on his sending of the text" I would say that it's unlikely because he is only...

What wiil happen if I don't show up the day of the hearing?

...agree with Atty Lavinksky BUT if Respondent has filed a responsive declaration, you can't take it off calendar without his or her agreement; ...

How do I proceed?

No - you must proceed by filing for dissolution of marriage and all assets & debts acquired during the marriage will be evenly divided. The...

What are the laws for the state of Tennessee as well as California,and what are my rights as a grandmother?

You might be able to petition for guardianship but you would most likely have to prove parents unfit and you would have to do it in Tennessee. You...

Whats the best way to present the fact that she's keeping me from seeing my kids to the mediator and court?

Keep a log of her refusals and try to get her to refuse in writing so you have proof when you bring it up at the hearing to show that she is...

Family Law / Divorce Situation

If you file prior to spouse regaining employment, then you will face both child and spousal support, and, whenever you file, you will have to...