Is there a way to ask the orange county courts to elaborate specifically how jurisdiction was acquired per 10USC sec. 1408 (c)(4

Adding to Atty Straus' explanation of 'jurisdiction', of the three options listed in 1408(c)(4), if he retained residence in CA when he 'moved out'...

How do I ask for future medical and division of my husband's 401k?

He can no longer carry you on his plan after the divorce; you should be able to get coverage under Covered California (thru ACA): ...

Is child support calculation based on "reality" even if that reality violates tax rules?

Put him down as single, and the IRS will likely investigate his return if you are also filing HH. Note that by taking HH, you have more disposable...

Is there an alternative way instead of getting a divorce, my wife and the boys are protected from any financial liability

You could file and obtain a Legal Separation that separates assets & debts, and future liability, but you remain married.

You have to file a Complaint to Establish Paternity, have someone serve dad (or have him sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt form), file...

Can I get 50/50 custody or even more?

If you can, hire an attorney because if she is successful in her DV matter, there is what is called a "rebuttable presumption" that you should not...

Can I move to another state during my emancipation process?

I would say you should not move because you would not yet legally be an adult, and as a practical matter, you would have difficulty making a court...

Is motion for reconsideration needed before filing an appeal, custody visitation.

An appeal will likely fail; judges often award legal custody to only one parent if there is conflict because the parents can't calming discuss any...

Do I have a case worth fighting?

Contact DCSS: http://www.stancodcss.org/ They will assist you in getting the support at now cost to you.

Can she get grandparent visitation rights if my husband and I don't agree to it?

If GM's son has not been found to be the child's legal father (and I'm assuming he has not because your husband is named on the birth certificate),...