His Notice of Unavailability has no legal effect and he is bound to appear or find someone else to do it or get it continued.

That’s not gonna work; lack of cooperation is one sure way to end up losing them.

You don’t have to give in to her demands to reach an agreement in mediation; go back to court and have the judge make the orders - and give him or...

Property purchased during the marriage with money earned during the marriage (not give or inheritance) is community property.

…and how would you support them financially?

It depends on what you mean by child expenses; if these terms are not included in your orders, then no - unless you’re talking about child care or...

You would have to file a Request for Order for Modification of Custody - unless he’s willing to sign a Stip & Order; hopefully, you at least have...

Yes - ask for flexible visitation but with reasonable notice - which depends on how often he sees them.

I understand that if one parents moves a distance away, it doesn’t seem fair that the other parent is obligated to make the drive either one full...

You can give him written notice that within a certain amount of time, if he doesn’t arrange for pick up, you will put it in storage and if he wants...