When negotiating a divorce settlement, you can structure the payments and payment schedule any way the two of agree to.

….most importantly, you have to be self-supporting, and something about your pose seems to imply that is not the case.

If it’s a final order, you may be able to appeal - or at least file a Writ; however, that will require an experienced appellate attorney to review...

You can set aside the order for custody because she deliberately failed to property serve with all the documents; it we be a request per Cal. Civ....

You have to file another RFO for clarification of orders, and ask the judge to confirm or deny that you can be present at appointments.

No - and your son’s judgement as to who should parent his children will not be credible until he is found not guilty. Regardless, if CPS is...

Of course - why would you think a judge could not make such an order? The judge apparently considered the evidence and thought a step-up was...

….and what has CPS said about his involvement with the children, and did you make the report? Agreed that he has just as much right as you do -...

The default process can be rather simple: one files and serves summons & petition; completes necessary disclosures as does the non-responding...

If your spouse is harassing you or disturbing your peace on a regular basis, you could file a request for a domestic violence restraining order.