Bind agreement and can I get a restraining order?

Is one weekend really worth all of this? Could there have been a misunderstanding or a failure to communicate?

How likely is it for the court to grant permission to the custodial father to take our kids internationally?

Generally, denial is based on the probability that he won't return the child. I personally am not buying your generalizations.

How do I get custody of my kids?

I suggest discussing the issue with the father instead of initiating a custody battle over one incident of bad judgment.

In California, how many years does a child have to contest the disposition of assets when the parent has not left a will??

It's way past time - but the right to the house depends on how your dad took title when your mom died or he divorced her.

Can a non-custodial parent be held accountable for years of under reporting income?

You have to ask for the increase by filing a Request for Order, and you don't get it until you ask. If he wasn't ordered to provide you with...

Do I need to submit a judgement form 180 for a paternity action to the court the same way it is done for a dissolution?

Here's a link to instructions: http://www.courts.ca.gov/11298.htm

Bankruptcy in Divorce?

I think your problem lies with the choice you made after she couldn't refinance; instead of just refusing to pay the mortgage, you should have...

Is this interfering with visitation or not ?

imho, the child should not have the cell phone during his brief 90 minutes with you; if you are monitored, then his safety is the job of the...

If you proceed by default and the post-separation assets are in your name alone, I don't see the need to amend the petition nor to include their...

Alimony?

Yes - a rough estimate $143 per month