I live in California, how do I go about getting Conservatorship over my older brother who is a drug addict.?

You file a petition for conservatorship; here's a link for instructions: http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-conservatorship.htm

How would this be interpreted on our court order.?

I agree with your interpretation - especially as you have had other family members do the transporting up until now.

My fiance was in the u.s illegally when I first met her we have a kid there in mexico she went back to mexico .she got caught 10

I've changed the practice area to Immigration.

The best way is to prepare the Petition and then get the department clerk to sign off re assigning the date as the same date as the status hearing...

Can me and my 2 year old leave my husband and move out of state.?

If you move without your husband's consent, he can file divorce here and ask that you return the child to what is known as "home state" jurisdiction.

Does one have to claim alimony as income if it is not court ordered?

One cannot claim alimony either as a deduction or as income if it isn't court-ordered.

What is judicial notice of fact?

It doesn't go to the "woman" because she pre-deceased your step-dad. The time to question this was when your mom died.

Will my dependent child affect spousal support calculated?

An aware of temporary spousal support is based on need and ability to pay - so it would have some effect.

If your with someone for 7 years and have two children and own a house together, are you entitled to half of the equity?

If you're on title, then you are 1/2 owner but to pull out the equity you would have to sell the house.

What steps should I take?

You need to file a request to terminate the restraining order.