Ive been paying outside of child support

No - the overpayments made will not be credited against future obligations.

About divorce what r my rights

You probably won't get immediate spousal support if he isn't working, but you could get 1/2 of community assets if any and 1/2 of community debts.

Can my 17 year old sibling live with me without having to do any legal act in court

Technically no - but if she is almost 18 and already enrolled in school and has access to medical care, you might get away with it. You can also...

Can parent claim overpayment of spousal support and refuse to pay child support?

He can't just decide - he has to get a court order terminating spousal support - so I suggest enforcing your orders with with an Income Withholding...

Three-day weekends refer to Monday school holidays (President's Day, MLK, Memorial Day, Labor day); holidays for the children - not the parents.

Why did the judge side with the attorney?

You need to report the attorney to the State Bar.

Do I have to respond to my ex’s lawyer? She keeps emailing me?

You are acting as your own attorney so you do have to respond, and you cannot ask her to not contact you.

Mother ignores position of judge at her peril; this was not a threat but perhaps a promise.

Drug test by cps later today? Do I have to provide?

You must do it if you want to continue to have custody and/or visitation with your child - you may be able to delay but you'd have to have a very...

If there is a court order for a parent to produce a child for visitation, is it mandatory for the parent comply?

Of course it is mandatory to follow the court's orders and failure to do so can lead to a finding of contempt.