How likely is it I could get full custody if the father has gone yrs without seeing my 4 yr old autistic son?

If he hasn't called to check on his son, I think the odds are excellent for both legal and physical custody.

Could I get sole or 50/50 custody or proper visitation of my daughter after 6 years of the dissolution of marriage?

It's not reasonable to expect full or even 50/50 custody when there has been 6 years of the opposite but you can certainly get at least visitation...

Can I seek legal help/documentation to have communication be solely between my ex and I and not with ex’s new gf?

You can seek court orders restricting communication to the child's parents by filing a Request for Order - and be sure to include the fact that she...

How can my wife become a legal guardian if I have full physical and sole legal custody and the mother has no visitations?

There is only a need for a guardian in the absence of a custodial parent; you should consider her filing for a step-parent adoption.

I requested my ex to take a drug test before he picked up my son the next day which was Monday today is Tuesday what is my next?

Ask to see the blood test ?

What amount should I offer on a compromise of child support arrearages on the total amount of $53000?

Offer whatever you can afford; DCSS will consider your income and available assets...

Will I have child support arrearages garnished from employment if 50% is already garnished from my social security retirement?

Probably...once DCSS becomes aware....

We were granted grands-parents visatation. With the Judge own dission, That it would be in the best interest children .

Assuming that the telephonic notice was after you were awarded visitation, then you were given appropriate ex parte notice if you were told when...

There are exceptions to discharge of debt in bankruptcy but I don't know if this is one of them; I've changed the practice area to Bankruptcy.

Can an illegal immigrant get a deportation order for not paying a penny of child support now owing more than 20k? If so, how?

This doesn't seem like an effective option for obtaining child support....