Divorce process - is it always so slow?

It usually does take some time; here's a link to info on the process (or just google it): https://www.courts.ca.gov/1225.htm

Can I get copies or transcripts from tax years 2004, 2005 & 2006?

...copies r transcripts of what? Ask whoever stores or maintains these records? If taxes, contact the IRS.

In family law, the deed isn't the last word - probably more like the first word.

Family law?

If home entirely paid for with cash prior to marriage, it remains his separate property unless he made measurable improvements with community...

Can I take a parenting course online or do I have to do it in person ?

Schedule a short consultation with a lawyer in your area - but you do have to take a class that's approved by the court. Look on the court's...

How do I get a divorce if I don't know where he has been for the past 19 years?

You first need to do everything possible to lcoate him and the file a request for order for publication of the summons and petition.

How can I convince my wife to sell her Interest in our home to me?

Since she also wants the condo, good luck! Offer her something that she wants more than she wants the condo.

I'd like to know if I should file the I-751 waiver based on divorce or battered spouse?

I've changed the practice area to Immigration.

The type of questions depends on the specific issues in your case. The children need to be honest and forthcoming with the mediator.

Can I find out who has contacted CPS lying about me?

No - that information is confidential to promote the reporting of possible child abuse.